Any consideration of the big bang has to address the question of time as the big bang was the beginning of time. There can be no time before the beginning of time by definition. Remember, there is not absolute clock counting down the minutes from the beginning of time to the end of time. Time is no more than a continuum of rates of change relative to one another. In many areas of the universe time has already come to an end (black holes). One of the most difficult questions, still unanswered, is how could conditions in the initial universal black hole (timeless as all black holes are) produce the expansion that is now called the "big bang" (an unfortunate name really). This is a good question. A very tough one that the best minds we have have yet to solve. I sure would be eager to hear an answer to it!
"especially when we see that mass cannot expand today. then how could each exploding material form into different varieties of members of the universe along with throwing gravity and rotation into the mix?"
The big bang theory does not say that the mass of the universe expanded. As Einstein pointed out matter and energy are interchangeable (e=mc2...sorry, don't know how to do a "squared" raised 2) but there is no net loss or gain of mass. What was expanded with the big bang was space, not mass. The entire mass of the entire univers was bound up into that super dooper dense "marble" and has not changed since the big bang began.
Rotation is easy to explain in Newtonian terms. An object in motion stays in motion unless acted on by an outside force. Picture a bll pitched in a baseball game. Suppose the pitcher managed to throw a ball with absolutely no spin on it. Now imagine the batter taking a swing at the ball. Now, if the batter swung the bat with the exact same force as the ball had flying through the air and he managed to hit the ball perfectly dead on both the bat and the ball would cancel each other out. If he swung with more force the ball would move back towards the pitcher (maybe a home run if enough force is used). Let us suppose though that the batter only grazes the ball. This grazing would upset the ball's no spin trajectory and rotation would be introduced. There have been uncounted numbers of impacts all across the universe since the big bang. Lots of opportunities for rotation to be introduced! The gravity part of this is a little harder to explain (well, alot harder). Of all the forces known, gravity is one of the least understood. We can measure the effects of gravity very precisely and understand that gravity affects time but we are not truely sure the exact nature of gravity itself. It has been postulated that gravity has a wave/particle nature like that of light, and it might very well, but up to now no good experiment has been devised to put this to the test. There are several in the works so I look forwards to hearing the results of those experiments.
"nor can this theory support the explanation of why only one planet has an atmosphere that is conducive to life. nor can it explain why only this planet got life. there are just too many holes in the theory to be valid."
The big bang theory does not address these questions at all, but is concerned with events at the very beginning of the univers, long before the formation of any stars or planets. That said, it is far and away way too premature to come to the judgement that ours is the only planet in the entire universe that has a life sustaining atmosphere or for that matter that harbors life. There are hundreds of billions of galaxies each with hundreds of billions of stars. We have not even given all the bodies in our one tiny solar system an examination for life let alone all those billions and billions of others! The vast, vast majority consensus amongst scientists today on the qustion of life in the universe outside of our planet is that life does exist out there. I agree with this assesment although as of yet I concede it has not been proven.
"i have problems with the picture as the shutter was opened for months, which seems to be a fairly long time and allows for a misrepresentation to take place. I don't think it represents anything but what takes place inthe universe over that time period and cannot indicate anything from the origin of time."
I am not sure how a prolonged exposure using the most precise telescope ever made would "allow for a misrepresentation to take place". The instrument just collected the light in a totally passive way. What is known about the light that it did collect is that the source of light was very far away (close to 15 billion light years away) and thus very old (close to 15 billion years old). We know this because of the red shift of the light, the guage used by astronomers to determine relative distance from us in space. That pic is not of stuff nearby and does not record recent events. It shows just what it shows...galaxy after galaxy close to 15 billion light years away and close to 15 billion years ago. This pic (and others like it) prove that the universe is vast almost beyond comprehension...galaxy after galaxy...hundreds of billions of them...each with hundreds of billions of stars. Very humbling stuff. Amazing!
"By keeping God in the picture, you remove the wondering, the confusion, and the instability while inserting the purpose of our existence."
I am not even talking about any gods or religious topics here.